Scent is the one sense that bypasses the frontal part of the brain and hits directly into the limbic system of the brain. I love shoe sniffing stories, especially when it involves hot girls with stinky shoes. Oh college lol. It worked like a charm. Is it possible the smell is in your sheets or towels? Most sprays today dont even qualify for the technical definition of eau de parfum. Im super-sensitive to the smell of tobacco smoke, but this does go to show you that it can linger in unexpected places. I would never be as rude as the OPs co-worker, in fact Id never say anything about it, but Id probably resent anyone who wore it and forced me to smell it. Last week I walked past a spot where an older lady had gotten out of her car and I could barely breathe for the perfume smell. I love scented everything and certainly am not the only one. There are people who believe very strongly in this initiative, so it wouldnt surprise me to encounter that sentiment here or elsewhere. This was just a suggestion for if OP is not comfortable with that as a sort of hey Ive done all I can to prove its not me, now Im done entertaining your rudeness. Her professional background includes designing curriculum, writing books, coaching business leaders, and speaking and training. Issues are raised. (Sometimes I feel like a hypochondriac, since I have so many medical conditions, but I swear Im not! My conditions have all been verified by multiple doctors and specialists.). Blondie batter? A lot of times they put them on 12 hours ago for a night out and arent planning on taking a shower until after work the next day. give you the smell test. Sniffing is one of my triggers to, whenever I her even one small sniff I get a huge panic attack. My office chair has cloth arms, and my thought process is that maybe some of the oils are lingering on these items, and when the OP is sitting in the chair, or putting her arms on the desk, her body warmth could cause the scents to be noticeable? What can I say, I both went through a goth phase in high school AND lived in San Francisco for several years! However the company could send an office-wide email advising folks be aware of strong scents causing issues. can I compare attending college to working a full-time job in my cover letter? I definitely see making a reasonable effort to make sure you are not having a negative impact on the people in your work space. Other sniffle-inducers include growths and anatomical issues, such as: Chronic sinus infections. I knew I hadnt worn it in ages but upon closer inspection we were able to confirm the smell was coming from my leather jacket. They want to make it seem like you are not a good fit for the job. But the world is literally full of smells. To be driven mad by a colleague. Industrial carpet glue and some wood furniture finishes does it for me. You can couch it as youd think itd be a good idea of someone checked up on him (and gently let him know that the noise is carrying). Peachie, you gave it away a little when you said your mother eats with her mouth open. It would be awful to hear that you smell everyday. She claimed I couldnt possibly smell it because it was only a drop on each foot and was covered, she couldnt smell it at all. We got fried chicken and rode the train home together . Allergist Dr. Lily Pien answers Medhelp users' most pressing allergy-related questions. Really!). Fine. Scents seem to fuse to them. They ruin maple ice cream for them? How To Deal With A Coworker That's Interested In You I live in DC and its more black women here. Im not OPs coworker, and obviously OPs coworker isnt pregnant like I am, but for the entire duration of my pregnancy Ive had a slightly stuffed nose. Thats why we strongly associate smells with certain people or happenings: Christmas smells like pine, Thanksgiving smells like pumpkin pie, etc. I cant handle it at all! Jerk. Shes done more than is reasonable. I agree that Alison has given you some very good advice and some good conversational points to start with. Im worried that there might be an underlying medical issue. And then walk away. It could be that the coworker hasnt realized they have the issue, not our delightful LW. Wait, shes not allergic or so scent-sensitive that its giving her headaches, or other negative physiological effects? I really feel for you. Agreed- the smell of Patchouli makes me nauseous due to being forced to smell it for 3 years straight while working part time in a health food store while in high school (Bread & Circus anyone?). Oh, Jager I cant be near it. Dr. Shane Russell-Jenkins answered. LW here Nope, I dont use any kind of incense or oil diffusers at home. Many cleaning products made me gag or gave me a headache, I couldnt stand the smell of my old shampoo anymore, and I had to go sleep elsewhere the night my husband made cabbage in the crock pot. She refuses to move. Coworker is being bratty and mean in a way that suggests she feels helpless (so, bullying but thinks she is the victim), and your suggestions were right on target for that aspect of the situation. I supervise a manager who falsified an employee write-up but I dont think she should be fired, getting out of shared intern housing, why are so many executives condescending, and more, interviewer fake-rejected me to see if I would fight for the job. Thank you for trying to accommodate her instead of dismissing her, but even if she had a legit complaint, shes been a jerk about it from the start and her comments are uncalled for and unprofessional. But wayward snacks and toys arent the only things that can block nasal passages. Conditioner is even harder to find. Theres no perfume smell, it smells very natural to me. So as far as I can tell, this came out of left field. I think a lot of people like the stuff you put on chicken; by itself, it doesnt taste like much. (LW, you have been so funny in the comments) I like the idea to get a blunt friend to do the sniff test, but basically I think the ideas about limiting physical contact are the best way to go at this point; Im a little afraid of sending the OP down a rabbit hole of onerous scent minimization that may not solve the problem. This may be snarky.but perhaps the coworker could simply rub a bit of Vicks Vapor Rub just above her upper lip. Febreeze offers a scent-free allergen reducer version of the spray, which might be helpful if the OPs coworker actually still has a sensitivity and isnt just being rude. Agreed. If things don't improve, tell your boss that things haven't improved. It doesnt make sense that OP needs to suddenly cut out all shampoo and all bath products when seemingly everyone else can use them without judgement, including us. Ive used both vinegar and baking soda (not together) to do this. Re: Constant phlegm / snorting problem - please help. I like the idea of having her walk into the office blindfolded and walk by OP and around the entire workforce, as I read earlier in this thread. It adds up a lot. At least she would actually SEE you trying something and, who knows, it might take care of any lingering scents. There are limits of what you can realistically ask of people. Many workplaces provide handbooks to their employees that outline policies and rules. But this fragrance is Dior! just to watch her reaction. If it is bullying, then standing up for your right not to be verbally abused may help. It used to be a magical odor-disappearing spray! Sorry, I scented was an autocorrectI wrote unscented. I agree with Alisons advice all around, I just had one other scent-source to consider do you perhaps use any home air fresheners or diffusers? I used to use an incense in my apartment and didnt realize how it clung until I started to get compliments on my perfume. I still like salmon. I like the good humor and kindness with which youre responding :). Stomach bug hit that night. In the case of sniffing, offer your colleague a box of tissues or suggest that she should stay home until she feels better. Ive known people like this who take kindness and consideration as a weakness and will exploit it. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/02/19/magazine/shopping-habits.html. But a co-worker? I enjoy wearing perfume, but tend to stick to indie oil scents, since the smell tends to stick closer to my skin (so, in theory, I dont bother my coworkers) and also because I seem to be sensitive to the alcohol that a lot of spray perfumes use. Thrown everything in the washer when I get home, may not wash it than and there, and take a shower before heading to bed. I worked with someone at OldJob who LOVED Avon products, nearly all of which set off symptoms. Also, if you were considering making exaggerated sniffing noises and jokes about patchouli, it might not be helpful. If you are using natural cleaners those do have a scent. His family would get so angry about it when he was younger. Office politics are a tricky business. At some point, you gotta be able to cope. I hope something works for the person who wrote this! Dont wear it to work, fine. I'm 12 I have the same problem it started like a year ago it drives my mam mad I really want to know what's causing it, Im only 14 and I sniff all the fricking time its really annoying and I carnt take it anymore. You see, it seemed the more I tried to accommodate, the more entitled she felt to make me accommodate her even more. (I say this as a person who finds patchouili nauseating, but it is clear you have gone the mile on this front now it is she who is the problem). It is not a matter of simply not liking something. I have spoken to my manager who has spoken to my coworker several times but . You could even put a few around the office so it looks like it was an office admin that did it. After we stopped that we smelled. The employee still kept reporting to HR that I was spritzing perfume in my cubicle and even alleged that I was purposely spritzing her cube while she was away. *Hugs* to you. Remember that those with hidden agendas are . It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider, procedure, treatment plan, product, or course of action. Sometimes it helps and sometimes it's so bad my family says something to me. The scent literally makes me a little queasy, just like the smell of too many lilies or orchids, which are toxic to many people, especially children. I am all about being considerate to the people around you, but Im having a hard time with this one too, because I agree that no one should be expected to change their home/weekend habits and change up all their products to accommodate a coworker. My stepsister is the same with Bath & Body Works Coconut Lime Verbenait was the smell that first set her off when she was pregnant with her daughter, and to this day (kiddo is 10) that scent is a firm no. Id be willing to use a different scent on works days if one really bothered someone, but not to give it up completely. This co-worker is handling things very immaturely, but patchouli is a big red flag. If one were going to be pedantic about it, the solid perfumes would be the only ones properly referred to by the word perfume. It makes me wonder if theres a bigger issue going on with Coworkers opinion of OP. And its one of the most powerful triggers available. Let him adjust the seating plan, talk to the coworker, talk to HR, etc. Im mentally picturing the co-worker as more of a powersuits and pantyhose type. You have a meeting. Shes never complained before now about my perfume, and Im sure she would mention if she was having health issues based on it. I say this because it doesnt sound like her co-worker is sensitive to the smells, but rather that she is being judgmental and condescending. Or, stay home until you feel better. Either way, what your coworker is doing is not cool, and you have standing to talk to your manager if it continues. Either way, OP certainly doesnt want to make matters worse so she probably shouldnt try it! Heres an article he wrote for CNN that was reposted on a blog (couldnt find the original): http://www.emilysstomach.com/2013/06/aversions-to-food-and-why-smells-make.html. You can tell her, You said the smell was on my purse and now I have a new purse, so I dont think youre being fair. Secondly, this smell process should embarrass her enough to put a lid on the sniffing and the comments. Cleveland Clinic is a non-profit academic medical center. If you feel your coworkers habits of correcting your work are somewhat resembling any form of harassment, immediately inform upper management. You might have to visit both specialists to land on the correct diagnosis. 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